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This article addresses a new trend in people using flirting as a way to warm to others when meeting on their first date. What exactly do I mean by flirting? How do you flirt with someone without being offensive?

Flirting is often misunderstood as a physical expression that you are sleazy with someone you meet. However flirting can be a useful way to warm to someone you meet for the first time. The intention of flirting is that you can break the ice with someone in a way that is non-threatening and non-offensive while still maintaining a professional appearance. It's a way to be fun and warm while taking the seriousness out of your contact with someone.

What ways can you flirt with someone? Well here are some ideas which, when implemented properly can really help spice your friendly impression with someone new:

1) Guys, a kiss on the cheek always makes a girl feel special, particularly on the first meet. This shows your interest and affection in a way which is both common enough to not be misunderstood, yet setting a warm greeting.

 2) Maintain eye contact with the person you meet. Smile at them and let them know you are interested in them. This can be a very warm and friendly way to connect with them.

3) Wink at that person once or twice. Winking is a cute and fun gesture to soften someone and tell them you think they're nice. Winking is actually something that will also make you feel good and set the mood to one of fun.

4) If it's the right situation, a light touch on the shoulder or arm can tell the other person you really admire them enough to show your affection. This can be a great way to use gentle flirting to convey your interest in them.

5) Laughing at something they say can be a good way to take the edge off the nervous feel of meeting someone new. However this should be used carefully and not if it's something they said about themselves which is perceived as negative. Comedy is always a favourite for allowing your self to glow. Tell that person something silly you did or a mistake you made with something at work or some unfortunate problem you encountered and turn it into something to laugh about.

6) Share something with the other person. Is it cold outside? Perhaps you can offer your jacket for their extra comfort. Do you have lollies, mints or gum in your pocket? Offering something to the other person is a great way to demonstrate your willingness to take care of their needs.

Flirting in the right way can bring you much success to your new relationships or first dates. Using these techniques carefully and correctly can set you up on a comfortable and enjoyable time ahead.

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Author: J Robinson 25/9/09